....i know it's a question that is not easliy answered but....didn't want to but checked her cell phone for text messages but I did...they had ALL been deleted but one came in real early this morning....he was professing his love for her which means there must have been a number on messages before this...she dropped the ILUBNILWU speech bout a month ago...she asked for space to sort her feelings...I gave it..moved to next bedroom...try not to talk to much of the situation unless she want to which don't seem like ever at all...she is mad cuz she said I've never given her any reason to doubt that I love her...just said the passion is gone...I can accept my short fall in this and said I would be willing to work on it...said she would try councelling but just does'nt feel that she wants to be married anymore(dated 3 yrs..married 16..three kids..14-12-10)...asked if there was anyone else..replied no..not even interested in any of that till I get head think'n strait, she said....found the text cuz i susspected something and there it was......now do I confront her with this and let her know that not all is lost cuz I just can't give her up....any suggestions please