Update:
W texted me 9:20am "I'm sorry that I messed up our lives"
Did not text back right away.
About half hour later I sent "Things are messed up. But the blame goes to me, too. I would do things differently, and will be. I am going to do what it takes to be a source of blessing in your life rather than pain"

Wanted to chat more, restrained myself. Right thing?

More restraint: I am working a construction job near her office. Was sent to get lunch for the crew from subway on opposite side of her complex. Did NOT go around and snoop. Small thing
Aybe, but I was tempted for some reason.

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.