Originally Posted By: TJP
Pretty good. D and I just got back from the spa. Massages and pedicures, ahhhh....I did manage to upset a close friend last night. It's hard for me to hang around her and her H. We used to hang out together, both couples. Now it just doesn't feel right. Plus, when my H is in town, he goes over there a lot. They get to see him, talk to him and hug him. I haven't hugged my H since July.

How is your weekend going?


I so get this any time I see any couple kissing, touching or holding hands it rips my heart out. I miss that stuff.

Originally Posted By: TJP
Pretty good. D and I just got back from the spa. Massages and pedicures, ahhhh....I did manage to upset a close friend last night. It's hard for me to hang around her and her H. We used to hang out together, both couples. Now it just doesn't feel right. Plus, when my H is in town, he goes over there a lot. They get to see him, talk to him and hug him. I haven't hugged my H since July.

How is your weekend going?


Its OK you can see my message for all the details --

Originally Posted By: TJP
Did your wife come home?


Yep -- things still the same -- meaning limbo continues !!

The best way to respond to his I want to start discussing things is to say - no problem - what exactly do you want to discuss ??? Light friendly and indifferent.

This stuff [censored] I know some times I am so fed up with this BS myself - stay strong -


If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!