Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
I posted this before but I think you ignored it because it's not what you want to hear. SHE'S JUST BEING POLITE. That's it! You're trying to read some desire to reconcile into her texts and it's just not there. She has been completely consistent in her replies. Anytime you just text something light then she replies in a polite manner. Anytime you push it down a relationship type path she doesn't reply because she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea.

You're really coming off as desperate and clingy in your posts here, and I suspect that's how you're coming off to her as well. That's got to stop, it's not what she's looking for. You need to be strong, independent and exuding PMA whether it's in person, in emails, in texts or on the phone.


True, but being polite is not all bad, her reaction could be worse. Just because she has no desire to reconcile RIGHT NOW, doesn't mean she never will. When to give up is up to LF.

I agree with AS's post and hope LF takes it to heart.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl