Listen , each one of us have a different situation. I wish that I was in yours but I am not. With that being said how many times on here have we heard of backsliding. So we know that some WAS have backslides with regard to the other party. We have been taught to work through those backslides and try not to let it derail your forward movement in the R process. Well that's fine between the two of you, however the third party in this case works in the same company and yes we have had this same situation on this board as well. It may take time for him to just fade away, and I agree with your post he used her in her state of confusion, so this is what he gets for making that decision in his state of mind, which was I can take advantage of this woman in her state of confusion, he did not worry at the time what the fallout would be. I do commend your W for taking a strong stance with her company about working with OM. I would bet my next two paychecks that if you polled a hundred business owners about this situation and who he would choose, it would be hands down the one who makes him the money.
Oh and on a side note I just smiled when you brought up the naked man on the toilet, if I could draw boy would I draw one funny as* cartoon of that. Also we all come to this board and stay here because we have gotten something from this board that our therapist, friends, co-workers, what ever are not giving us. Thats why I still come on here.