First let me start by saying how this all feels wrong. W is here now, redeeming her "sleep-over coupon" and we aren't talking. They were at the pool when I got home from work and they just got home now. I said hi, was civil to W and playful with D8. They had dinner (I went to my room while they ate) and D8 got ready for bed. I put D8 to bed and W went in to tell her a story.
W has been distant. She is cold and even angry sounding. I even heard her tell the maid to make sure to leave the key out. I guess she's planning to go out later tonight. It's almost like I've taken a huge step back. Is this really suppose to get me my wife back? Isn't she going to think that she was right to leave me?
About setting more boundaries for visitation, for the time being I don't think it's necessary. I feel ok with the way things are for now but I thank you for your concern and your advice. So far W has given me warning and been more precise as to what time she was coming. She seems to be respecting this boundary so I'll leave it at that for now.
SIGH!!!! Is that what they mean when they say counter intuitive? This is going to be harder than I thought!!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
