I totally agree snodderly. I just don't know the right steps to take. I am quite busy with the kids and my life but it seems that when I don't answer his texts right away he goes off on how he hopes I am having fun with my new bf and that he hopes it works out and maybe now we can be friends and all that mess. That is not even close to what is going on in my life. I know I need to get over feeling like I owe him an explanation. That's why I asked about sending him am email to let him know I am letting go so be would not think crazy and jump to conclusions.

I know I seem pathetic. I am just scared and needing advice

Lisa


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12