Lisa, You do not need to tell him that you are moving on. Actions speak louder than words...just do it!
Respond once in a while to h is texts...nothing says you have to be on the spot w/each and eveyrone of of them. You do have a life and children to look after and it's not like you are sitting there waiting on him to text.
Don't make it so easy for him to return home. He's got to prove to you that this is it and that he wants to earn your trust and love back again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
