My only thought on what to do right now is to email him back and say," I would be happy to set up a time for you to come by and pick up the things you need." That's it, nothing more. I wouldn't acknowledge anything else he said. Is that the right thing to do? I haven't done anything yet. I don't know when/if he is leaving on another trip. Last he told me he was going to Munich this month. I'm sure he'll keep asking about getting the coat and gloves. Help please...