#1. Realize that you are worthy of so much more than you're being given.
#2. Tell your H that you agree with him... Your marriage isn't working anymore, and, more importantly, the current status quo isn't either
THEN...
Draft a visitation schedule, Work on interim financial plan, Tell H that you will only be discussing "important" kid subjects with him, and nothing more... STOP engaging, and being engaged by him, And, move on... Do that Zumba, re-energize your career, focus on healthful activities/thinking, etc...
H will sniff around. Who cares? If he were a new suitor, would he be good enough? NOT
I would bet money on him having already cheated.
If you find out, think ahead a bit, is that something forgivable by you?
If so, think about what you're required actions would be for him to make you feel secure, again.
If not, you're a step ahead of the process by having some of the groundwork done already.
Drop. The. Rope.
He has, Honey...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
