Hello, mu turn, will try to be clear and short. Married for 3,5 years. I'm 34 and my wife is 27, and she is now living at her parents since December. I arrived in the country in July, but she announced I could look for my own place, which I did. We`ve been separated for 4 months, if you're still following. She wants to file for Divorce early in 2013. Now here's the twist : we have a son of 19 months, who she allows me to see twice a week, for a ``supervised`` visit by one of her parents. So I get to see her and the boy (and one of her parents) twice a week for about an hour. My lawyer said no wonder she hasn't filed for separation, because I would be entitled 50% of access. Now, should I file for separation and demand to have the toddler every other week by court order, or will that ruin my chances to reconcile? If I get the toddler, I might not see her twice a week for an hour neither, which was a good thing to use all the reconciliation techniques, see what I mean? Any advice, remarks, comments on that peculiar situation? Thanx.
