Doesn't quite fit in any category covered in here

[PeteWyo]

Acy, I would agree that your situation very much fits into many other stories on the boards. I went through a period where I thought I was alone in my situation. I agree that you should read through some threads from start to finish. You actually have waited longer than some to get here so you should keeping mind that some of the longer posts might actually make more sense to you as some posters have posted throughout their journey where you have come here with some history already. In the end, the common thread is that the posters here, for the most part, want to get their spouse back. Otherwise why would we be here. This isn't a foolproof technique and there is no guarantee of success. But the idea is to do the 180s that you need to. Even if 5% of what was wrong is you. Fix that 5%. Do some soul searching and admit to yourself the things that you could change. Do it for you, make yourself a better person. Make yourself the better option to your W. You guys working together is good and bad. You don't get to have your own space but you do have an opportunity to show her the new you. Hopefully if she sees that you have really changed she will be kicking herself for not wanting to be back with you. But these need to be life long changes, not just to manipulate her to get her back. This way, no matter what happens, you will be a better person for your next relationship. Maybe that will be with your W, maybe not. But you will be better off for it either way.