MKB, I don't think there is much left to save. We have been through so much together but he just won't stop the cheating. I can't do this anymore unless he totally changes which apparently he can only do with his latest ow. I haven't lied to him at all about me seeing someone else. I don't even know where that came from. I haven't text him back but have received several from him this evening that all basically said " I hope you and him enjoy your evening". I am thinking this isn't bc he cares or is jealous but it's him feeling guilty about having hurt me today with taking the kids to meet her. So if in his mind I am seeing someone it will help him not feel so bad.
Once again I don't think I would be able to live with this happening to me again with him. But he seems like he is happy with ow and they are soul mates. I will admit I am jealous but I will find myself again.
Thanks for stopping by and posting.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12