Oh goodness, I just read an earlier post from you and I am also in the same sitch about visitation. My h doesn't want to agree on set times and I think it's because of the same thing you are saying his time with the ow. I will say that the last times I used DB to help me that when this happened before with a different ow I just dropped the whole talk about the m or his r with ow and I took control of my life and boy did he call and chase me. Everytime I got to this point and followed DB principles things changed and we were back together in less than 3 months after I "got it". Hang in there
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
