LadyUF. If you stop being polite in our communications I will end the call. If you start to yell and insult me I will end the call.
This is where you set a boundary.
Then you live with the boundary.
Teach her what is acceptable to you in communication.
Its then her choice to communicate with you or not.
You are in control of your conversations.
Lead here. It will build respect.
But the key here is to end the angry conversations. I mentioned earlier to record them. Start doing this to protect yourself. And journal about this as well.
And I agree with your thoughts. Give more notice. And offer to drive and drop off.
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