The crack in my separated life...

[Sweetbriar]

Okay, so I guess my last thread got locked because there were too many posts? Im not sure how that works, but Im starting a new one. Not sure how to link the old one...but I wanted to start a new one because I truely appreciate the advice and look forward to what everyone has to say. The last post I posted was about how sad I am that Im pretty sure that its over.

I would love to hear from anyone who has had their H or W tell them they love the OW/OM and to spew very mean things, then later return to R? Im just so tempted to give up, but am still a tad hesitant.

My other question is...if they are spending more and more time together does this hurt the idea of R? Does it make H feel less guilt because its starting to become a normal thing to him instead of a secret thing?

H seems to spend at least 2 nights there a week and of course, its all special time for them because there are no kids and animals and friends around. It just makes me sick.

Tomorrow is court. Please say lots of prayers for me, as I dont know how this will go. This will be the papers for the legal sep and Im scared. Its mainly about money and visitation, but still, scared. I just feel like tomorrow makes it so final and no chance. That tomorrow will put in my Hs head that he can move forward without guilt....

I will post after court...I hope that it goes as well as can be expected. If we cannot come to an agreement, then we will have to actually have a hearing and that will not be fun. Wish me luck..I need all the financial support I can get right now...and hitting his wallet wont be a nice thing for him either...