Thanks for stopping by my thread. I am trying to read some other posters here to see if I can help out. I don't have much advice now but it almost sounds like I wrote this thread. I have this same issue with my H as the things he says and how he always makes something out of my words to make an argument over. I haven't figured this one put either except that it's best to just not respond when he does this. Which is actually a 180 for me and may be for you too bc I usually feel the need to keep clarifying it for him and just end up digging myself a deeper hole. I hate that someone else is feeling this confusion and pain.


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12