Kicking a$$ and taking names!

[reachingHigher]

Yes, snodderly, I get where you are coming from. H's behavior is so baffling.

I took your advice and we had a great time today. H came well before the time he said he would; went to the grocery store for me and everything. He wanted to cuddle and we did way too long, probably.

We made lunch together, he hung out with the boys a while, we napped, we washed cars together, he took S13 to town to play tennis. H really seemed exactly like his old self. Very little phone usage, and only at appropriate times. He was kind, funny, patient, everything he was before.

He did some chores around the house and helped with a parenting issue with S19.

I made pumpkin cheesecake for us, something he asked for a couple of weeks ago. It came out fantastic! Dreamy & creamy!

Before he left, in the evening, he asked to look at my document for L & budget. He agreed to everything while we were laying on our bed with my head resting on his chest.

He hugged the boys goodbye. No tears today, just family feeling. I gave him a nice hug and said I had a really nice time with him today. I wanted him to leave with that good feeling.

I'll keep in mind that this could be the prelude to running away. (thanks for the insight, busting) Just trying to keep an open mind to it all.