I mostly agree with dbmod, but still, there needs to be structure. Children need and crave structure. Also, you are only putting off the inevitable. Such liberal parenting schedules are simply not possible if there is a divorce. IMO, might as well show your W what the reality is, and also, unfortunately, your D. That's my opinion anyway.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce