Thanks, Ellie. I just don't know what to do. And it's hard keeping quiet until I figure out what's the best thing to do. I think he is basically a good guy, and works hard for his family, keeping the house up to date, etc., but honestly, how could he do this again??!! Without talking it out with me??!!
So I guess I have to figure out which he is - guy that has trouble handling stress (which has been enormous in the last year), or will he continue to do this if we try to work out again?
Hi mother is healthy and 10 years younger than the dad, so she takes care of him, but she's driving us (both my husband and myself) crazy....she means well, but continuously oversteps her bounds...at times I just want to say to hell with everything, and get an apartment with the kids, but I hate to hurt them and disrupt their lives....but then how good is it for them to see me staying with someone who disrespects me?!
Maybe it will be therapeutic for me to write here...just feel so alone....
