Thanks so much Snodderly and BK. You are right. I am above this. I just need to fight that core of myself. Every fiber of my being is crying out for revenge. But I need to calm myself and let karma work it's magic. Easier said than done.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
Is so sorry Wishing, That's just hurtful. You have recieved some great advice. Be strong.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
Breathe! Yes, they do have their nerve, but you've got to stay strong and stick to your boundaries.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
4 way meeting today. NOT looking forward to it. I trust my attorney but the thought of being in a room with H for two hours is daunting. His attorney is expecting any day now and she won't make it to court to "revise" the temporary order. H wants us to split the finances so I can't spend his money so he has more for the girlfriend. I am a bit nervous. Praying a lot. Please keep me in your thoughts.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
wishing, Put on your business suit and consider this a business deal. You know how to negotiate for what you want. Do not back down. Leave your emotions at the door and be ready for anything. Don't agree to anything quickly...think about it for a bit and then respond.
Good luck! You will do fine. Leave the emotions at the door!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
That was a waste of 3 hours of attorney time. Nothing worthwhile was accomplished. Nothing at all. I left the meeting because I had to get back to work and nothing was finalized. It was ridiculous.
H wants us to have our own bank accounts and each person's check get directly deposited into each account. We each have designated bills to pay put of own accounts yet we each pool our money into our joInt account for expenses for groceries and the kids. It just doesn't make sense. It seems confusing and complicated and it seems like a good way for him to hide money.
And he is out of town again. He just sent me an email this morning and claims he told me this earlier which he didn't. That's fine. It's better when he is gone anywho.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
