I agree with 25 years. I haven't read through all your threads yet and am working through them to see if I can help in any way. Thanks for stopping by my thread.
Don't worry too much over your backsliding. I think it's normal and helps you see what issues you still want to work on. The important thing is that you see that and give yourself a break about it. This is a very difficult time as we all here know. I hope to have some better advice after I read more on your story.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12