It took me a very long time to accept that just because someone doesn't do things my way doesn't mean it is necessarily wrong. I do things the way I do because it makes it easier for me. Someone else may be different. In particular, this is hard with my kids and their chores. I have OCD like tendencies but one thing I could care less about it making a bed. Perfect example- I can climb into a wad of blankets and quilts and be just fine. H needs to have the bed made and it be smooth. Neither is really right or wrong just a preference. ;-)