I don't think your panties are in a bunch! Maybe a minor slip. Not a big deal. Sounds like it could have been worse. Rule of thumb- internet goes off turn the modem/router off and unplug for at least 1 min. Then plug it back in. Give it 5 minutes to resync. If it doesn't work then restart computer and still no go, call the provider.
I have never been to the opera. Would love to go! I would love the symphony too. lol Not much shaking here in the Appalachian Mountains.
So what have you decided about contacting your H? Texting, calling, neither, maybe both? Let him initiate?