He will not or cannot forgive you for the affair even if he played a role in it.
So, how long do you want to deal with that? Is he really going to change and let it go? I wish he would but he may not be able to OR want to...he might like feeling "Right" b/c
he mistreated you a long time before you had the affair and it's so much easier to shove your sins in your face, than face his own.
The worst course of action after an affair, is
staying married & staying miserable.
If things are not going to improve (and are there really signs of it? then you know what to do.
You wish you could do something else, but I don't have anything to tell you except that your marriage is painful to read about so it must be hell to be in.
I have 2 family members who divorced and later remarried. It happens.
Sometimes we need to see that the grass is greener where it gets the most water.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
