Like unbidden says, it comes across as pursuing. She said "enjoy urself I will tell him you said Hi", this I see as her conversation-ender. When you keep it going it feels like pressure.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.