Hey AT, thanks buddy!!!!! It’s odd because I havent been posting on my thread nearly as often over the last couple weeks. I was relentless for over 5 months!!! The length or frequency of my posts don’t really matter though. I am in a much better place right now, and that DOES MATTER!
Your posts on your thread have been very inspiring and I've learned a ton from them! I've been doing a much better job at all this stuff recently. It feels like I got off the hamster wheel or I've at least slowed down. I'VE taken control of the fast roller coaster and it’s now traveling at a snail’s pace, hopefully this makes sense. I also know your posts have been a contributing factor. They have been extremely helpful for my personal growth.
A small group of us took our kids out for Halloween last night. We ended up running into my W’s sister and brother. I gave them both a hug and we had some brief chit chat. It was slightly awkward because I've always been close to them and I hardly see them at all anymore. I didn't view it as that big of a deal though.
A lot of you know I've detached a lot more over the last month. GAL has been helped with this a ton!!!! W and I briefly talk a couple times a week, mainly because of the kids or finances. Recently her tone of voice seems a little lighter or softer for some reason. To be honest, I don’t really care that much. I can’t help but think she knows I am pulling farther away. I also know she’s seen some of my FB GAL pictures recently. I am well aware my GAL and detachment is for myself. It’s not a ploy to see what W will do, say, react, etc…..
Just plugging along out here in the beautiful pacific northwest. Tonight’s going to be another fun night hanging out with some friends.
I can’t help but think she knows I am pulling farther away. I also know she’s seen some of my FB GAL pictures recently. I am well aware my GAL and detachment is for myself. It’s not a ploy to see what W will do, say, react, etc...
Careful there Rough! These are some contradictory statements!
In all honestly, it seems like you're doing a great job of making progress.
I can’t help but think she knows I am pulling farther away. I also know she’s seen some of my FB GAL pictures recently. I am well aware my GAL and detachment is for myself. It’s not a ploy to see what W will do, say, react, etc...
Careful there Rough! These are some contradictory statements!
In all honestly, it seems like you're doing a great job of making progress.
Agreed. But you seem to be doing well. Continue to GAL and "let it be" (great Beatles song that is on my DB soundtrack).
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I can’t help but think she knows I am pulling farther away. I also know she’s seen some of my FB GAL pictures recently. I am well aware my GAL and detachment is for myself. It’s not a ploy to see what W will do, say, react, etc...
Careful there Rough! These are some contradictory statements!
In all honestly, it seems like you're doing a great job of making progress.
Agreed. But you seem to be doing well. Continue to GAL and "let it be" (great Beatles song that is on my DB soundtrack).
Thanks guys. Absolutely Denver, will always love that song.
These are some contradictory statements!