He's Just Not That Into You

[BklynMom]

Labug is right, the changes you make should make you feel better inside, its not about the result of "winning him back"

That said having that Mother Theresa wisdom takes months if not years. What helped me early on was just changing my time frame. Not trying to force things to get better in a month or two but looking forward to next Easter and reevaluating then.

More then anything changes take time. it will takes months and months of consistent behavior for your H to trust your changes.