Originally Posted By: Dm45
24 hours since last contact. My fears: a) She will never contact me again, even though last exchange was positive.

YOU initiating contact will not change that, just prolong the possibility after the next contact or the one after that...thus NEVER implementing a DB technique...


b) She will interpret this as playing games, or that I don't love her or want to talk to her.

That's a lie we all told ourselves b/c we HATE the concept of NOT "doing" something at all times.

But releasing the WAS to figure out what they want to do WHILE WE work on ourselves, IS doing something.



Meanwhile i read al turtle web site nearly all day. Learned Much about my terrible communication style, studied much on mirroring technique. Looking for opportunity to use it.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change