Oh Vero I am sorry that S4 has to go through that :-(
I understand your dilemma re: H of course. So many emotions and worry already in play on top of worry and care for the children post-op.
I am not sure what to say. I think more experienced people can help you better.
Love you and am thinking about you (((( ))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home