You can't judge your situation by others. You sister doesn't understand the process and she's not walked a mile in your shoes, so take what she says w/a grain of salt. You are the only one that can determine when you've had enough and want to end the marriage. However, do make any rash decisions when you are having a pity party or angry. Make decisions when you are calm and have had some time to think about them. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
