Thank you SS and RegretfulLA. I hate having S4 go through this but we've been putting it off for a year now. I get anxiety the week before and I'm starting to feel it. It's in 9days :-(

LaBug, I need advice on S4s surgery and having H spend the week of post-op.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017