You're right, getting past fear and letting go of outcomes is key. My fingers had to be pried one by one off the hold I had on "the way things are supposed to be" but now I feel very free.

Bug I am so happy that you are feeling better today. :-) It put a smile on my face to read that.

I like how you phrased the above. I feel like I am doing that now...prying my fingers off the hold...one by one.

You are so brave. I admire you so.

Busting.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home