Think about this:

Do you always have to be right?

Do you always need to have the last word?

I used to do that, guess where it got me?

Here.

Let things go, he can have his opinion, his thoughts, his feelings.

Have you read about validating?

It doesn't mean you agree, just that you understand he has a different viewpoint.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss