And if W actually set up a time then D wouldn't be wondering "When will I see Mommy?" which is difficult for little kids.

Being a free spirit is great but kids need a bit of structure that they can depend on from their parents.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss