Into the abyss!

[Just A Guy]

You dont.... W has to see it on her own, in her own time... Better to have her categorize you as a friend who she can keep contact with than to have her categorize you as an enemy who wont give her the space she feels she needs right now..

I am having the same issue in my sitch where W and I are like room mates all the time now. I would much rather be her room mate than some one whom she views as detrimental to her mission..

Thats how I get by anyhow...

You seem to be doing a great job so far, try not to backslide when the move time comes. Its VERY important that she feels like you are "supporting her decision" even though you dont agree with it. This is going to allow for MUCH more communication with her.

Be the BEST option she has for a long enough period of time and she will get it..