To quickly answer a question that Eric posed.... No, the anger is not consuming me. I have admitted that it is there, in the background. A couple of times, over several weeks, OM has been a topic of conversation between W and I over this job thing and the text/emails that he has sent. I get flashes of anger during these times, but I really am able to quickly put them aside. I just look forward to the day that all of the loose ends are tied up and all of this is completely behind me. But it certainly isn't consuming me.
Sounds like you are in the right place Denver. The anger is normal and no matter what others may say, you will think about OM. The key is not to allow him to take up too much space in your mind, which is sounds like you are not. Good for you.
As I mentioned before, I think you need to stay out of it as much as you can. Don't allow him to derail you.
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I post them because I use this place to express feelings that I sometimes don't in my everyday life. I use this place to document my personal journey.
Keep posting dude dude and this is the perfect place to express how you feel and also get idea thoughts from others.
You know the drill, you will get different forms of responses on here based on peoples own perspective and life experiences. Take what YOU feel is beneficial to YOU in your sitch and apply it.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
