Lisa, he may come back, he may not. But he's made it pretty clear that he doesn't respect you. You need to get up on your own two feet and not take this anymore.

Think about it this way. Go back and read your posts and imagine if someone else were telling you her story. What would you tell her to do? He's clearly established a pattern. He stays with you until something better/younger/skinnier comes along, and then follows that for a while... then when that doesn't work out you're always there for him... then away again and so forth. He will continue to do this until you put a stop to it.

Is this the person you want to be? Is this the kind of treatment you deserve? Think about why you are accepting this behavior as "ok". Are you in individual counseling by the way?


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page