I am a DB'er from a long time ago, who spent over three years on this site, attempting to save my marriage... I stop in and read from time to time, but only chime in on situations, very rarely, anymore...
Yours caught my eye.
Why? Because you're doing the spinning I did for YEARS!!!
Are you ready for some sage advice?!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.