I've been removing things that are "hers" or things like wedding pictures from view (mostly for myself, don't need the constant reminders) but I think that bothers her. Last week she said she wanted to show me a picture of her kitchen in her apartment (um, okay) and then shows me a picture of an artwork I made that she pilfered from the house and hung there along with a sketch of our dog (souvenir of her past life??).
Is it a bad idea for me to be removing that stuff from view? How do they react if it looks like someone was "spending time" in the house? I want to keep shaking things up but not sure if I'm doing more harm than good sometimes.,,
