There'll be no white flag above my door-not yet La

[labug]

Also, remember what you said. You immediately started working on yourself with an IC when he first dropped the bomb way back when. Meanwhile, he's been stewing in his selfish ways.

Ah vero, so true. I even talked with my IC about this because there was some residual "If only I had done better" floating around in my head. I got into counseling and worked my tail off and have dealt with so much stuff and he lives his little life, in his little trailer, with very few friends, sees his kids occasionally. And if that's what makes him happy, more power to him. But...

I saw a sad-looking, uncomfortable, fearful man on Fri. I felt sorry for him.

I on the other hand, am blossoming(late bloomer, huh?).

And I'm worrying that I could have done better. That it's all my fault.

I've gotten skilled at shutting that voice down.