It's my weekend, but usually she would pick him up midday today, that's why I had to arrange with her about him staying longer.

I should have done this sooner though, I completely agree on that, but to start arguing and name calling is overboard.

Might be something to what you said about her resenting the fact I get my life in order, I don't know.

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.