Yesterday I was thinking of things I've learned through this journey and I know I have more to learn but right now these are in my head.

Breathe!
I have no control over other people.
Work on me, Work on me, Work on me
Slow-down, nothing need be decided right now.
Think for 48 hours before acting (unless your house is on fire)
Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries
Don't tolerate crap behavior because you think that's what DBing is. Read the book again!
Discover, uncover your authentic self and be that person!

These things will get you through a lot.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss