rH, Continue as you have been. It's okay to have hope, but keep your expectations at zero.
The way that you have described your h's behavior, it almost puts me in mind of someone who is spending as much time w/family before he disappears, or in many instances, dies. Now, I'm not saying your h is going to die, but he may be "absorbing" as much of the love and good values for when the divorce is final and he can go off on the Mother Ship for a bit. I hope that I am wrong, but I've witnessed this behavior before.
If he does come over today, be yourself, but try not to raise any discussions about the divorce or your relationship. Keep things light and airy for you want him to go back to his place w/good memories so that he can dwell on them for a period of time.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
