She means that I cannot be afraid to rock the boat since our ship is already sinking.. she means that she wants to hear my feelings and emotions. That clamming up for so many years has put us in this sitch.
It goes against DBing somewhat but it is a specific thing she has asked for which she has stated could very well be the key and I have thought since the beginning almost that it is the main issue.
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