Back on this site help!!

[RegretfulLA]

Hi Lisa,
Welcome back. Sorry that you need to be back here but the people here will help you.

The story that you tell about your H makes me think that he will always be a cheater. It's happened 4 times already and you still keep taking him back. So what's to stop him from doing it again?

I know you made vows but I would say you're not married to a man who is taking his own vows seriously. When he says he doesn't respect you and will always cheat on you, I'd listen carefully. He's demonstrated that pretty clearly already.