Sandi2, good to hear from u again and yes, DB Coach. Thanks again for the advice on my previous thread. I think standing my ground has helped. Separation now looms and W is a lot more at ease.

Am still struggling with this being a friend with W as it just doesn't feel right. She is my W not just a friend and I don't want to be categorised as just a friend. How do I get W to see that without her spewing again!