I agree the strong go getting confident Agal is so much more attractive. Focusing on making that a permanent feature! Detach from what H is doing or saying. You allow him to flip the switch to the needy whoa is me Agal.
He probably does it sub coconsciously but it happens non the less and then he does notice.
Your guidline of acting as a friend and doing things that you would for any friend works well. If a friend told you they wanted to buy you a computer, would you spend all night wondering about their ulterior motive? How would you thank a dear friend for such a gift?
