Hey...you sound like you handled things good..keep foccusing on your own life..I waited around along time..hoping h would change...little by little I rebuilt my life..knowing that we have choices only about us..and thankfully h has turned his heart back..but I was fully prepared to move on..alone.
I did not realize until h told me everything, that this is THEIR journey..oh lots of wise people here tried to tell me that..but until you here the other side, you keep ASSuming it is only about you..what you did to make them leave..etc...until the other s is ready to "get off the train" of their own self destruction and guilt..we can't do anything to help them except to take care of ourselves..to live each day as if we may very well end up without them...and of course if rebuilding the r is what you still believe in and want...then being kind, patient, forgiving and all the rest that goes along with it,is all we can do.
