Well the rollercoaster just keeps on going up and down!! My W sent me several texts yesteday that one of her co-works lost his partner to cancer. Very sad. She texts, "When I think of that and the end of life-like wiht my mom- there is nobody else on this earth that I want to be with when I am at that point." She continues with, "I should have said-I still want to be with you". Here we go again.

Now today, she texts several times about money she took out of her retirement account and that she could not pay it back in time and we would be penalized. Really "we"? I have the $$ in my personal account and I struggled a lot with saying I would lend her the money, but decided not to. And said to her that I'm she will have to figure it out.

Not sure if that was the right thing to say, but I didn't want to rescue her and give her the money. She makes me so frustrated....I'm not sure what to say to her..

M-49
W-47
M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994
No Children
4 dogs/2 cats
EA 11/2010
Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us)
As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...